What is Play and Why is it Essential for Children?

Picture a 1 year old engaging in a giggling game of peek-a-boo with their caregiver using a blanket to hide under.

Now think about a 3 year old joyfully focused on pushing sticks through a puddle.

Imagine a group of 10 year olds organizing themselves into teams and kicking a ball into designated goal areas. 

All of these are examples of play. 

Play is a fundamental part of human life, offering joy, creativity, and growth, particularly for children. It is a self-motivated activity in which individuals become fully absorbed in the moment, engaging without concern for outcome or judgment. This article explores what play is, why it is essential for children’s development, and how it manifests in various forms.

Why Do Kids Play?

The drive to play is ingrained in our biology. Humans, like all mammals, evolved to have circuits in the brain that encourage playful behavior. Something in their environment (a stick, a ball, a field) catches the children’s attention and activates the play circuits in their brain. This process motivates the children to play and helps develop their unique play personalities. “Each of us has an inherent play nature that is as unique as our fingerprints” (National Institute for Play, 2024). 

Throughout history, children have engaged in play, whether alone or with others, using toys, games, and everyday objects. While play may differ based on age, culture, and social context, it is a universal and natural aspect of childhood.

Neurological Basis of Play

Play is crucial for brain development, strengthening neural pathways that support essential life skills. When engaging in playful activities, the brain’s midbrain regions, linked to emotional response, activate. This “play state” stimulates neural connections that promote creativity, resilience and problem solving. Play can literally “light up the brain,” enhancing pleasure and emotional well-being while providing natural opportunities for growth and learning.

Play as a Mental State

Play is more about mindset than behavior. The key to recognizing play lies in the attitude of the individual. Two people could perform the same action, such as throwing a ball, but only one might truly be playing. Play involves being deeply engaged and immersed, often with no concern for time. It’s self-motivated and rewarding, encouraging repetition.

Five Core Elements of Play:

  1. Self-chosen and self-directed: The player determines what and how to play.
  2. Intrinsically motivated: The process is more important than any goal or outcome.
  3. Governed by the player’s rules: Play has its structure, created by the participant.
  4. Imaginative: It often involves creativity and imagination.
  5. Relaxed state of mind: Players are alert and engaged but not stressed.

What does play look like?

Play can take various forms, shaped by the individual’s preferences, cultural background, and social context. Whether it’s physical, imaginative, or creative play, the core elements remain consistent—self-direction, intrinsic motivation, and enjoyment.

  1. Physical Play: Activities like running, playing tag, or sports that involve physical movement.
  2. Imaginative Play: Role-playing and make-believe games where children explore different identities or scenarios.
  3. Creative Play: Art, building with blocks, and other activities that encourage innovation and open-ended exploration.
  4. Social Play: Interaction with others, including cooperative games or team-based activities.

Making time to play

Play is a vital part of how children learn, explore the world around them and interact with others. Play is a natural instinct. It provides enjoyment and promotes brain development and is essential for children’s growth and well-being. In the midst of busy schedules, it’s crucial to make time for children to play. It allows kids to relax, reset, learn important skills, and for a certain amount of time be the decision maker in their environment.

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Acknowledgements

This blog post was prepared with the help of Rachel Beck, a second year graduate student at Tufts University’s Eliot-Pearson Department of Child Study and Human Development. Rachel is passionate about child development and supporting children and their families. This has manifested itself in all of her professional work, including her experiences in Early Intervention and Healthy Families Massachusetts.